I kind of disagree. Becoming a narcissist is losing yourself to a narcissist. I would prefer getting into their minds, looking through their façade, and learning the right ways to deal with their drama. Not drowning your individuality in their chaotic dramas. i am still the kind. compassionate, and empathetic person but not an innocent fool. if you love me ill love you back several folds. you hurt me and you are gone. No chances given anymore.