OMG Shams. I married the scape goat and faced the same things you did. I wonder how suddenly the scape goat became the golden child for the mother and it was like i was trying to kill him with everything i said or did. Sons of narc are spineless people. They never stand for the wrong and support the abuse going on in the name of love. Mine had ED at 30 and both the son and mother claimed i am the reason behind it. Nonsense. Great that you divorced him. I did too. Life is getting much better. Hope you are doing great too.